Big Yankee had to leave today. Peanut drove to the airport with us. It was heart-wrenching to see her cling to him screaming and crying "Don't leave Daddy! Don't leave!" It wasn't easy on any of us. I don't know how military families survive the constant separations while risking their lives for others. For now my coping mechanism is distraction. We drove back to my parents where the boys had stayed and played with cousins. They stayed a few more hours and then we had some much needed vegging out. We will go back home tomorrow and immerse ourselves in school, activities and daily life with the gaping hole of emptiness always there. I am hopeful I can
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7 comments:
That sounds so hard! I don't think I could deal with that. Good luck with it all, especially keeping the kids distracted.
(visiting from SOC Sunday, thanks for the visit!)
I used to do that a lot...watching my son crying for his Daddy while he's away for business trips. I can relate. May 2012 be better for you guys. :)
"Daddy don't leave!"
Oh my wow. That has to be one of the hardest things to hear for you parents.
Oh my! That must have torn Big Yankee's heart out! I hope the New Year brings you all under one roof & that all of this is just a small blip on the radar screen of your lives.
Oh how awful :( I hate when families have to be separated. I hope the time passes quickly for you.
Blah. That is tough. Here's hoping it gets easier when all the distractions are in place!
You said all the right things. You have coping mechanisms, not solutions to everything. And you use distraction! That's my favorite coping mechanism! Seems like you're doing to best you can to handle a tough situation. I would crumble too!
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